[DoctorBadVibez]

31 years old, one step son @ 7 years old, currently common law wife, beautiful, loving and INSTANTLY becomes one of the guys in a minute, wedding at Beaches Turks and Caicos in 2012, almost 60% of both our disposable incomes is going towards the wedding because we both agreed that a beach wedding + 21 days at our favorite resort would be the best idea as wedding and honeymoon (and family time for the three of us) are altogether (she's an event planner). I also have shedloads of family members coming to this wedding and AIN'T NO WAY in hell everyones going to be put up at peoples houses (that is stupid), we have discount codes for the resort for them. We have a balanced love and spending relationship, our son is somewhat spoilt but NO GUNS for him at all until he reaches late teens. The wife doesn't like to spend money on anything for herself unless she really needs or wants it. She was the one who told me I should get back into airsoft. I get to Milsim once in a while, skirmish often, drive my RC Cars with my son, fly my rc sailplanes when I have a chance... I get to enjoy all of it, but I found the trick, that is to NOT flood the lady with gun talk and speak your mind when you get back. I let mine know it was a great game or hunt, give her a big hug and a kiss, tell her that I missed her and wait for her to tell me "how was it?" Often I notice that we men ignore the small things (no I'm not talking about the front sight post on an AR) and that pisses the ladies off...